Wow..

I've never felt so bad for someone. Honestly. I've been working with this girl for the past 4 1/2 years, my best friend at work. Someone i can always tell everything to.She is so nice, non-judgemental, seriously just a hard worker and a sweetheart. like you could never do anything wrong to her, and she always makes your day!! :D

so yes she has a kid who is such a cutie pie anywho..she has been going out with this douche bag for hmm i'd say roughly 3 years, they were engaged at one point and they live together..and this guy acts like a dad to her kid. Happy lil family.

Lately this guy has been hitting on me, at first he would call me gorgeous err w/e else. i wouldnt say anything back..i seriously just preteded that i didnt see any of that and deleted those texts. While im at work he doesnt hit on me or anything so its weird like yah he'll do what we used to do back when we were kids by picking on someone that kind of thing. On Friday we had an event for Halloween and the library had a food booth, annnnd i was the only one at my work with a food handlers card, and my coworker's bf has one too so i would be stuck working with him for like 6 hours. i was not looking forward to it.

While running errands for the event and working it, things were normal nothing bad happened. But he left early and my coworker didnt have her phone on her to see when her bf was coming back to pick her up. So i told her to grab my phone and to text him. I was trying to show her how to use by phone cuz i couldnt do it cuz i was making food. Then right before she was about to text him...i realize i never erased any of those texts from where he was calling me 'gorgeous' err w/e. So i had to snatch the phone. delete.delete.delete. and text for her becuz it was just wrong place at the wrong time kind of a deal. i didnt want that kind of drama in the middle of this crazy event we were working.

So i was texting him for her til the event was over but once i left he was hitting on me HARDCORE. saying shit someone who ISNT SINGLE, should say. seriously really inappropriate shit, obviously i told him how it was fair to his gf because theyre together..i work with her and im her friend. Basically how fucked up it is what he's doing..because my ex did the same shit he was doing. I was extrememly irritated and enraged because it brought back old feelings i kind of suppressed. I would tell him on and on again i wasnt interested because his gf was my friend/co-worker. he just wouldnt stop, and he still HASNT he wont stop texting me nottttttttttttttttttttttttt appropriate things. i feel so bad for my friend, i know i have to tell her. i have to. it's gonna kill me to be around and she just has no idea how much of a douchebag her bf is.
i know when my ex was doing all of this bullshit, ALL i wanted was for someone to tell me. so i wasnt wasting my time with someone who was such a dickwad.
So lets see how it goes when i break the news to her :/




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